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Dapaan ZAMTUR gov PAMTUR..

In an Indian culture, the huge amount of attention given to the son-in-laws ( called as Zamtur in Kashmiri ) often exceeds the thin line between genuine love and respect and plain Patriarchy. As a nation, we are learning to become more feminist but we also need to simultaneously unlearn our conditioning where harmless yet unnecessary traditions and practices in the name of culture somehow forms the foundation layer of a misogynist society.
A son-in-law or a daughter-in-law is a happy joyful addition to the family and should be treated with same crazy family love and respect and less formality.